An intentional experience of touch, intimacy, and pleasure - to connect, soothe our nervous systems, nourish our souls, and heal, together.
What is a Cuddle Puddle?
A cozy gathering where a group of humans come together for soulful connection - through facilitated heart opening connection exercises, cuddles, and sharing gentle touch through massage or other sensual tools.
Picture a relaxed setting with soft music, plush cushions, yummy snacks, and a room full of beautiful souls, slowly getting to know each other, and ending up in a puddle of closeness.
Following initial connection exercises, some might desire a warm hug, others a playful snuggle, a massage, or a moment of quiet closeness - all flowing naturally without any pressure.
The invitation to all is to slow down, feel into the collective energy of the group, and let your nervous system open to the joy of being present to your heart’s desires.
NB this is not a play party, sex club, tantric temple, hookup scene, dating service or escort space. You will remain clothed.
CONNECTION
CARE
INNOCENCE
EXHALE
PLEASURE
PLAY
What We Believe
We believe in...
-
Cultivating shared group experiences vs individual pursuits or conquests.
-
Community that together creates safer spaces to explore, play, share and grow.
-
Heart & Soul resonance over superficial lust / attraction.
-
Co-creating slow and intentional experiences that offer ourselves the spaciousness to breathe deeply so that we might hear our inner truths.
-
Honouring the real, raw and authentic expression of our truths in love, kindness and with empathy & compassion for ourselves, and each other.
-
Bravely taking steps forward and facing our fears with open hearts, as we shed our masks to speak our truth, and receive each other’s truth, in trust.
-
Aligning with the rhythms of our natural, innocent, child-like and sensual selves to inspire balance and wellbeing.
-
Celebrating the freedom we experience from embracing our desires, and living boldly through connection, touch and play.
No events at the moment
Your Facilitator
-
Mary J Fourie is a Professional Certified Coach (ICF PCC) as well as Lifestyle Financial Planner (FPI).
-
She is in training to be a Certified Trauma Informed Temple / Eros Facilitator (Evolving Eros).
-
She also collaborates with others in the embodiment space through Sacred Rebels - Ritualists of the Heart.
MJ believes in soul-aligned living and exploring your sensual and sexual self to uncover the truths and desires of your soul.
She holds transformative spaces where vulnerability and curiosity birth awareness, insight and the courage to reclaim Life's pleasures — often experienced as raw, real, and profoundly healing.
Mary J Fourie
Purpose + Money + Pleasure Coach
Cuddler 8
"Touch heals. I was apprehensive at first as I didn't really know anyone but MJ. What a wonderful heart experience with a group of beautiful sensitive souls in a space so expertly held. My whole body was still buzzing the morning after. And yes, being hugged and touched by other men is the medicine the masculine needs so badly."
Cuddler 7
"Touch can heal... I held a wonderful man in the Cuddle Puddle. He had his head on my chest and I stroked his back. For two men to connect in a gentle loving way and it be anything but beautiful is sacred. It healed a part of my masculine. It wasn't weird, it wasn't "Gay", it was simply human. It was genderless.
At one point I stood back and tool a look at the beautiful mesh of entangled bodies and studied everyone's faces. Not one person had a frown on their forehead. Their faces reflected peace, safety, and love. It didn't matter what you did for a living, what you had done in your past - all that mattered was that they surrendered to being full present and being fully human.
At the end of the Cuddle Puddle I felt an overwhelming sense of peace. Knowing that as a strong masculine man I am worthy of love and touch and peace is the most healing experience.."
Feedback
Cuddler 1
"It was truly a wonderful connecting and nourishing night yesterday. We came back home with a full cup."
Cuddler 2
"Love this space and all of you!"
Cuddler 3
"Thanks so much MJ - I absolutely loved the last Cuddle, can't wait for the next one. So grateful for your wonderful, generous facilitation of this space."
Cuddler 6
"You have been amazing in creating a safe space for all of us. Thank you so much!"
Cuddler 4
"MJ thank you for a beautiful space last night. Wow so needed. Seems everyone there had such a need for the simple touch of other humans. What joy those few hours brought."
Cuddler 5
"I'm raving about Cuddle Puddle Club to some friends. It was awesome. I can't wait to do another one. "
Cuddler 9
"Thank you for last night's Cuddle Puddle. It was so yummy."
Cuddler 6
"Touch can heal... I held a wonderful man in the Cuddle Puddle. He had his head on my chest and I stroked his back. For two men to connect in a gentle loving way and it be anything but beautiful is sacred. It healed a part of my masculine. It wasn't weird, it wasn't "Gay", it was simply human. It was genderless.
At one point I stood back and tool a look at the beautiful mesh of entangled bodies and studied everyone's faces. Not one person had a frown on their forehead. Their faces reflected peace, safety, and love. It didn't matter what you did for a living, what you had done in your past - all that mattered was that they surrendered to being full present and being fully human.
At the end of the Cuddle Puddle I felt an overwhelming sense of peace. Knowing that as a strong masculine man I am worthy of love and touch and peace is the most healing experience.."
Soul-Aligned Sparks from The Cosmos
Invite Aliveness to Your Inbox
YOU ARE WELCOME HERE IF...
You yearn to slow down, breathe deeply, feel more -
and desire to connect to & exchange nourishing touch with other gentle souls.
We’re about cultivating a sanctuary of gentle intimacy, pleasure and soul-aligned play, where the rush of the world fades into the quiet of presence, care and connection.
We embrace heart-led principles to explore sensuality - the practice of engaging all of our human senses which includes pleasure beyond sex and performance, focusing on reverence, worship, and the innocent joy of touching another’s spirit before their body.
It's time to exhale...